only one person has given me exactly what i wanted when it cones to people I’ve dated. I didn’t have to ask him for it either. I mentioned on my blog that i always wanted someone to ask me out for coffee. He saw it and did exactly that.
And you know, we had great conversations. We even went on a date, but that was before i realized that dating isn’t always best for me.
But, he’s a good person. And he paid attention. I didn’t have to beg for his attention…or wonder about his time and availability. it was there. PhD program and all.
I’m glad we’re still cool because he taught me a lesson. People will make time for things and people they like. There won’t be many questions left unanswered. No secrets. cards are on the table.
And most people choose not to pay close attention to things. this could include you. Don’t let it.